Hey all! I left off my last post a bit, okay A LOT, conflicted. I had met two men online, and then in person, and both of them were interested in the Dom/sub life (in the bedroom). Kyle and Steve.

I was definitely leaning more towards Kyle though. I felt more chemistry with him with everything. There was the physical attraction part, but also his extreme intelligence, sense of humour, the way he kissed and how affectionate he seemed to be so far.

The Dom side, I still didn’t know yet. But I was going to find out very soon. Date number three. This is the date he said things were going to happen. Well, he did not disappoint.

We had the third “date” at his place. I got there and we chatted for a bit and kissed, and then as we were kissing, he led me to his bedroom. Then, it was kind of like a Dr. Jeckl and Mr. Hyde thing went on in him. He switched to Dom mode and wow, just wow, it shocked the heck out of me!

He. Was. Good. He was definitely a Dom. Needless to say, we had a good session that day. I remember being so nervous, but it was short-lived. I felt at ease very quickly once we started.

Fast forward to the next session with him. Even better. It was a lengthy one this time. A couple of hours. There was a lot that went on. It was more of the same dominance from him, but more intense.

He loved oral…both giving and definitely receiving! I had to perform a lot of it, to the point that my top lip was very sore afterwards. I will come to get used to that with him every time.

He also liked to move me around, from the bedroom to the living room to the hallway area in between. He had this post in the living room area that he would tie me to. He would sit me on this small mattress that he had, put cuffs on my wrists and then bind my hands behind my back around the post.

Completely helpless. I had to perform a lot of rough oral in that position. He would also have sex with me like that too. Then he would move me to the floor in front of him on my knees, like a true subservient, while he sat on his couch. Yes, you can guess, more blow job action for him there.

He had a duffel bag that he kept in his closet. He told me that I was never to look inside of it. Ever. He brought it out that day. He took out a “tool”. It was a flogger. He proceeded to whip me with it.

He whipped me so hard that pieces were starting to fly off of it. It was kind of funny, I’m not going to lie. He then set it down on the bed beside me (we were back in his bedroom at this point). Wellllll, I was feeling bratty that day.

A little side note about me is that I like to test a Dom that’s new to me. I like to try something bratty that I KNOW is not going to sit well with him because I want to see what he will do. I want to see how he will react.

I will say that in all of the times I’ve tested a Dom in this way, it doesn’t end well for me. Yet I keep doing it. I MUST be crazy.

Anyway, back to me feeling bratty during that particular session with Kyle. So, the flogger is put down beside me. I turn my head to see this and in one quick motion, I grab it and throw it across the room.

You might have an inkling as to what happens next. He stops. He then demands that I go and retrieve the flogger. With the tone in his voice, I know not to waste any time doing so.

So, I go get it. He says to give it to him. I comply. You can imagine what happens after that. Yes, I got the whipping of a lifetime. There were many apologies flying out of my mouth as it was happening. What I received was a lecture in a very stern voice, along with a ton of lashings.

Lesson learned. Well, that day anyway (insert wink emoji here). I was very well behaved and strictly obedient after that.

After we were done, I was completely exhausted. I believe I uttered the words “I feel like I’ve been fucked to death”. A lot went on during that session, and future ones too. I don’t think there was ever a session that was under 2 hours.

After that, we were pretty comfortable with each other sexually, and otherwise. It didn’t take long.

However, I would soon find out a very big obstacle from him. One that would change pretty much everything. Find out in my next post…